unbendEnglishOxford English Thesaurusunbend verb 1 I had trouble unbending my cramped knees: straighten, straighten out, extend, flex, uncurl, flatten. ▷antonyms bend. 2 you could be fun too, you know, if you'd only unbend a little: relax, become less formal, become informal, unwind, de-stress, loosen up, let oneself go; informal let one's hair down, let up, let it all hang out, hang loose, come down from one's high horse. ▷antonyms tense up.unbend Oxford Dictionary of English