effete
adjective
1 effete trendies from art colleges:
affected, over-refined, ineffectual, artificial, studied, pretentious, precious, chi-chi, flowery, mannered;
informal twee, la-di-da, pseud;
British, informal poncy, toffee-nosed;
rare alembicated.
▷antonyms unpretentious.
2 he chatted away, exercising his rather effete charm:
effeminate, unmasculine, unmanly;
womanish, girlish, feminine;
weak, soft, timid, timorous, fearful, cowardly, lily-livered, spineless, craven, pusillanimous, chicken-hearted, weak-kneed;
informal sissy, wimpish, wimpy, milksoppish;
offensive limp-wristed, pansyish.
▷antonyms manly.
effete Oxford Dictionary of English